Confessions

What’s on your mind when the lights go out?

No names, no filters, no judgment. From fleeting thoughts to wild obsessions: set your secrets free. 

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pet play experience

I finally felt comfortable enough to explore pet play with my partner. Wearing a collar and being treated like a “good boy/girl” sounds weird to outsiders, but the way it shuts off my brain and all my daily stress is incredible

Is it “girl math” or is she actually ignoring me?

I’ve been dating this girl in London for a month. When we’re together, the sparks are mental and the sex is 10/10. But she can go 3 days without replying to a text. She says she’s just “bad at her phone,” but I’m starting to feel like a backup plan. Am I being too needy or is this a proper red flag?

My girlfriend wants to start an OF

i’ve been with my girl for 3 years and she just told me she wants to start a spicy page for extra cash. she says it’s just “solo stuff” and won’t show her face, but i’m proper struggling with the idea of other blokes paying to see her like that. should i tell her i’m not comfortable with it?

shibari experience

my girlfriend has been getting into shibari and she finally decided to test her knots on me. she had me fully hogtied and then just went to the kitchen to make a toastie while i was stuck there. the feeling of being totally helpless while hearing her hum in the other room was proper mental.

She wants to film us but i’m proper paranoid

my girlfriend wants to start recording our sessions just for “us” to watch. i’m well into the idea of seeing her on camera, but i’m proper terrified of the phone getting hacked or the cloud leaking. am i being a paranoid boomer or is there a safe way to do this? i don’t want my nan seeing me like that if it leaks lol.

first experience with breath play

we were in a hotel in Vegas and he asked if he could use his hand to restrict my breathing for a few seconds. i was scared but i trusted him. the way the world blurred and then came rushing back when he let go made my peak feel like an explosion. i’ve never felt so vulnerable and safe at the exact same time.

Midnight kitchen floor session

couldn’t sleep in the heat so we both ended up in the kitchen for a glass of water. one thing led to another on the cold tiles. it’s the only way we stayed cool tbh.