Confessions

What’s on your mind when the lights go out?

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first experience with breath play

we were in a hotel in Vegas and he asked if he could use his hand to restrict my breathing for a few seconds. i was scared but i trusted him. the way the world blurred and then came rushing back when he let go made my peak feel like an explosion. i’ve never felt so vulnerable and safe at the exact same time.

Midnight kitchen floor session

couldn’t sleep in the heat so we both ended up in the kitchen for a glass of water. one thing led to another on the cold tiles. it’s the only way we stayed cool tbh.

How do I tell my partner i’m curious about a third?

i’ve been with my partner for four years and we’re super solid, but i can’t stop thinking about bringing someone else in for a night. i’m terrified they’ll think they “aren’t enough” for me, which isn’t true at all. how do i bring up a threesome without breaking their heart or making them feel insecure?

I want her to be the boss tonight

lately i’ve been wanting my girlfriend to take total control. like, i want her to tell me exactly what to do and maybe even tie me up. i’m worried she’ll think i’m “weak” if i ask her to be the dominant one. i hope i’m not overthinking it

Is it cheating if it’s just “digital” kink?

I’ve been in a relationship for three years, but I’ve started talking to someone on a discord server about some pretty heavy kink stuff my boyfriend isn’t into. No photos, no real names—just “text roleplay.” Is this considered cheating or is it just a harmless outlet for my fantasies? I feel proper guilty and I don’t know if I should stop

Quickie

it was 2am and the city was actually quiet for once. we snuck out onto the fire escape of his apartment in New York. the cold metal against my back and the glow of the streetlights below made it feel like we were the only two people left in the world

Getting risky at a crowded campsite

we were camping and the tents were literally three feet apart. we had to be completely silent, just moving with the rhythm of the wind hitting the canvas. the tension of someone walking by to go to the bathroom was insane.