Confessions

What’s on your mind when the lights go out?

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my first full 24 hours in control

my partner let me have total control of him for a whole day. i kept him in a collar and leash the entire time we were at home, and he had to ask permission for literally everything, even to get a drink of water. the psychological power trip was way more intense than anything physical we’ve ever done!!!

I record myself just to see what he sees

i’ve started propping my phone up and recording my solo sessions in my apartment in Austin. i don’t even send them to anyone, i just like watching them back later. it makes me feel so much more confident knowing i look that good when i’m peaking 💅

How do I tell him I want to be choked?

i’m in a pretty vanilla relationship in Boston but lately i’ve been craving something a bit more… intense. i want him to be more dominant (specifically hands on my neck) but i’m scared he’ll think i’m a freak since we’re usually so soft. how do i bring this up without making it awkward?

Wax play

tried hot wax for the first time last night. the sting vs the warmth was actually life changing. my chest is covered in purple and white drips today and i feel so “marked” and taken care of. 🕯️⛓️

Am i being boring for wanting to stay vanilla?

everyone on my feed in London seems to be into some crazy kinky stuff lately (ropes, impact, whatever). my boyfriend wants to try a “submission” night but honestly, i just like regular, intimate sex. i feel like a proper NPC for not being into the hardcore stuff. am i weird for just wanting it to be simple?

full sensory deprivation night

he blindfolded me and put noise-canceling headphones on me before he even touched me. not being able to see or hear when he was coming was so terrifying but also the most turned on i’ve ever been. when he finally used the ice cubes on my skin i literally jumped.

My first time trying a silent dinner date

my partner and i went to a fancy restaurant and he told me i wasn’t allowed to speak the entire night unless he asked me a direct question. i had to communicate with just my eyes and it was so intense. he kept teasing me under the table with his foot while i had to keep a straight face for the waiter. the power exchange had me literally shaking by dessert