I’ve been seeing a guy for two months and the “talk” about past partners came up. He’s only been with 3 people, and my count is significantly higher. I’m scared if I tell him the truth he’ll judge me or see me differently. not sure if I should give him a “filtered” version or just be honest and hope for the best ..

My gf dropped hints about buying me a harness or some leather gear to wear during our sessions. I’m a pretty standard jeans and t-shirt kind of guy, and the idea of dressing up like that feels a bit ridiculous

I was trying to cook a proper three-course meal for our anniversary, but they walked into the kitchen wearing absolutely nothing but an apron. We never even made it to the appetizer. The pasta was a clump of glue by the time we were done, but it was the best night we’ve had in months

Something about the raw power of the weather outside got me so worked up. I grabbed my wand and just let go. the timing of the peaks with the claps of thunder was like something out of a movie

I’ve realized lately that I hate dirty talk. Every time my partner tries to say something “naughty,” I just want to laugh or I totally lose my focus. I prefer total silence and just focusing on the physical feeling. He thinks I’m bored because I’m quiet, but I’m actually having the time of my life. I don’t know how to explain this without sounding cold

My partner suggested he watches me with another woman. He says he isn’t interested in her himself, he just wants to see me “explore.” I’m bi-curious so it sounds fun, but I’m worried it’ll change our dynamic or make him jealous once it actually happens.

Been seeing a girl for a few months. Lately, she’s been dropping comments about how her ex was “adventurous” and into specific kinks I’ve never tried. It feels like she’s trying to coach me, but it’s honestly just killing my confidence. Should I tell her to stop comparing? it’s really a turn-off