Confessions

What’s on your mind when the lights go out?

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How do I tell him I want to be choked?

i’m in a pretty vanilla relationship in Boston but lately i’ve been craving something a bit more… intense. i want him to be more dominant (specifically hands on my neck) but i’m scared he’ll think i’m a freak since we’re usually so soft. how do i bring this up without making it awkward?

Wax play

tried hot wax for the first time last night. the sting vs the warmth was actually life changing. my chest is covered in purple and white drips today and i feel so “marked” and taken care of. 🕯️⛓️

Am i being boring for wanting to stay vanilla?

everyone on my feed in London seems to be into some crazy kinky stuff lately (ropes, impact, whatever). my boyfriend wants to try a “submission” night but honestly, i just like regular, intimate sex. i feel like a proper NPC for not being into the hardcore stuff. am i weird for just wanting it to be simple?

full sensory deprivation night

he blindfolded me and put noise-canceling headphones on me before he even touched me. not being able to see or hear when he was coming was so terrifying but also the most turned on i’ve ever been. when he finally used the ice cubes on my skin i literally jumped.

My first time trying a silent dinner date

my partner and i went to a fancy restaurant and he told me i wasn’t allowed to speak the entire night unless he asked me a direct question. i had to communicate with just my eyes and it was so intense. he kept teasing me under the table with his foot while i had to keep a straight face for the waiter. the power exchange had me literally shaking by dessert

Proper naughty night in a hotel

stayed at a proper posh hotel last weekend and met a girl at the bar who was way out of my league. we didn’t even make it to the bed, just ended up against the floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the city. it was a proper vibe seeing the london skyline while she was making so much noise. i reckon the people in the building opposite got a free show

My long distance dom controlled my toy

i live in Seattle and my partner lives in NYC but he has a remote app for my toy. he told me to wear it while i took the light rail to work this morning. he kept changing the patterns right as the train got crowded. i was literally clinging to the overhead strap trying not to make a sound while he was thousands of miles away laughing at me. it’s the lack of control that hits so hard.