i’ve been with my partner for four years and we’re super solid, but i can’t stop thinking about bringing someone else in for a night. i’m terrified they’ll think they “aren’t enough” for me, which isn’t true at all. how do i bring up a threesome without breaking their heart or making them feel insecure?

lately i’ve been wanting my girlfriend to take total control. like, i want her to tell me exactly what to do and maybe even tie me up. i’m worried she’ll think i’m “weak” if i ask her to be the dominant one. i hope i’m not overthinking it

I’ve been in a relationship for three years, but I’ve started talking to someone on a discord server about some pretty heavy kink stuff my boyfriend isn’t into. No photos, no real names—just “text roleplay.” Is this considered cheating or is it just a harmless outlet for my fantasies? I feel proper guilty and I don’t know if I should stop

it was 2am and the city was actually quiet for once. we snuck out onto the fire escape of his apartment in New York. the cold metal against my back and the glow of the streetlights below made it feel like we were the only two people left in the world

we were camping and the tents were literally three feet apart. we had to be completely silent, just moving with the rhythm of the wind hitting the canvas. the tension of someone walking by to go to the bathroom was insane.

my partner let me have total control of him for a whole day. i kept him in a collar and leash the entire time we were at home, and he had to ask permission for literally everything, even to get a drink of water. the psychological power trip was way more intense than anything physical we’ve ever done!!!

i’ve started propping my phone up and recording my solo sessions in my apartment in Austin. i don’t even send them to anyone, i just like watching them back later. it makes me feel so much more confident knowing i look that good when i’m peaking 💅