Confessions

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My “CNC” fantasy finally became a reality

I’ve had a “consensual non-consent” fantasy for a decade. My partner finally agreed to a “kidnapping” scenario. She surprised me when I got home from work—blindfolded me, zip-tied my hands, and took total control. Being treated like a prisoner in my own home was terrifying and erotic in a way I can’t even explain. The level of trust we have now is off the charts.

Caught in the act by a delivery driver

We were having a go on the sofa with the curtains wide open because we live on a high floor. Well, turns out the delivery driver had a very tall truck and was parked right level with our window. He just stared for a second, dropped the parcel, and bolted. Proper mental

He’s jealous of my vibrator… what do I do?

I’ve been using a specific high-end toy for years, but my new boyfriend seems proper threatened by it. He made a comment about how he “can’t compete with a motor.” I try to tell him it’s a different kind of fun, but now I feel guilty every time I want to use it

She wants to “rate” me after every time??

Met this girl recently and she’s great, but after we’re finished, she literally wants to sit up and have a “debrief.” She asks what I liked, what she could do better, and then tells me what I should change for next time. It feels like a performance review at work :/

Solo staycations are for one thing only

I booked a high-end hotel room just for myself this weekend. No husband, no kids, no chores. I packed my entire “toy drawer” and a bottle of champagne. I’ve spent 48 hours doing exactly what I want, when I want, and I feel like a brand new woman. 10/10 recommend

My “number” is way higher than his… do I lie?

I’ve been seeing a guy for two months and the “talk” about past partners came up. He’s only been with 3 people, and my count is significantly higher. I’m scared if I tell him the truth he’ll judge me or see me differently. not sure if I should give him a “filtered” version or just be honest and hope for the best ..

She wants to buy me gear and I’m nervous

My gf dropped hints about buying me a harness or some leather gear to wear during our sessions. I’m a pretty standard jeans and t-shirt kind of guy, and the idea of dressing up like that feels a bit ridiculous