Confessions

What’s on your mind when the lights go out?

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Dinner can wait

I was trying to cook a proper three-course meal for our anniversary, but they walked into the kitchen wearing absolutely nothing but an apron. We never even made it to the appetizer. The pasta was a clump of glue by the time we were done, but it was the best night we’ve had in months

the best stress relief during a storm

Something about the raw power of the weather outside got me so worked up. I grabbed my wand and just let go. the timing of the peaks with the claps of thunder was like something out of a movie

is it normal to not want to talk during

I’ve realized lately that I hate dirty talk. Every time my partner tries to say something “naughty,” I just want to laugh or I totally lose my focus. I prefer total silence and just focusing on the physical feeling. He thinks I’m bored because I’m quiet, but I’m actually having the time of my life. I don’t know how to explain this without sounding cold

spicing it up with another girl?

My partner suggested he watches me with another woman. He says he isn’t interested in her himself, he just wants to see me “explore.” I’m bi-curious so it sounds fun, but I’m worried it’ll change our dynamic or make him jealous once it actually happens.

She keeps bringing up her ex performance

Been seeing a girl for a few months. Lately, she’s been dropping comments about how her ex was “adventurous” and into specific kinks I’ve never tried. It feels like she’s trying to coach me, but it’s honestly just killing my confidence. Should I tell her to stop comparing? it’s really a turn-off

How to tell her I want to try a hall pass?

Me and my gf are great, but the bedroom has gone a bit stale. I’ve been thinking about suggesting a “hall pass” for both of us: one night a year where we can do whatever with someone else.

a contract for our kink

Met a guy in Belfast who is very into the D/s scene. He wants us to sign a “relationship contract” that outlines rules, punishments, and expectations. Part of me thinks it’s proper hot and organized, but another part of me thinks it’s a bit clinical …